What is it that you find impressive about somebody else? Clothing, home, cars, useless possessions? To me seeing somebody go into debt to buy something just so they can show off to their friends isn't all that impressive. I really don't care that you bought a new car just so you look good pulling into work. What would really impress me is if you told me you saved up for it and paid cash.
I'm sure everybody knows someone like this. They are the person that throws the cool parties every weekend but doesn't have 2 nickels to rub together.
Don't be this type of person. Be the one who sits quietly and saves his money. You will thank yourself later.
Your crap isn't that impressive
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But I do want to enjoy everyday life, as much as resources allow. I'm not sure what you guys mean by "sitting quietly".
After necessities are met it is about prioritizing things that are important to us. Quality delicious food, for example. Vacations too - they are more important to us than nice cars. So since we can't afford everything we want, we have to choose. I like nice clothing too, but I am thoughtful about picking it, and don't buy it often, but when I do, I make sure it is worth the money to me.
I realize some people have different priorities than me and enjoy different things. To me, I could not give up my ipad and think it is the greatest thing ever, but I would not spend a dime on tickets to a football game.
So I don't necessarily think people are showing off when they choose to spend a lot of money on something. Maybe they are just passionate about it.
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Jerry